There no novel writer’s point to
this post. Nope, this one is about ‘states,’ and not the geographical ones.
This one is all about my sweetheart Nita, who as a young gal in a state of confusion, married me a
long time ago. Our marriage has resulted in two sons who tricked two beautiful
young women into marrying them, and now Nita and I are the grandparents of a bounty
of young’uns.
Last week being Thanksgiving, #2
son and family stayed with us for most of the week. A loving family is a beautiful
thing, but it is not restful when two become seven, or eleven when #1 son and
his family join in. Chaos is the natural
state of such times. But the week was a wonderful sort of chaos, what with
the cooking, playing, and ongoing chatter. And the new swing out back didn’t
hurt, and little Rory’s second birthday cake was a hit, too. As was the
Saturday trip to our favorite Mexican Restaurant in Austin.
Then came Sunday morning when Nita
headed to church before others were even up, to sing in Morning Glory, our
church’s contemporary early service music group. After that service, she joined
the robed choir for the traditional service. Then home to bid goodbye to #2 son
and family. Then a much-deserved nap, then back to church for the annual ‘Hanging
of the Greens’ and chili supper. Whew. Call
Sunday a busy state at the end of a long, but special week.
Now it’s Tuesday, and I’m sitting
across the living room from Nita while she holds our fifth grandchild, little
Teddy. Nita shares babysitting duties with Teddy’s other granny while his mom
is at work. Teddy caught the local ‘crud’ that is going around making life miserable
for those so affected. Nothing fun about coughing, a snotty nose and a fever. He is normally a
good little six-month old guy who squeals in happiness and entertains himself.
But not with the crud. So, yesterday, Nita held Teddy for eleven hours, cooing
to him, bathing him, and rocking him, and is immersed in the same routine
today. A state of nurturing love that is the specialty of moms and grandma’s. Teddy may have the crud for a
couple of days, but he is one lucky little guy.
So, my after-Thanksgiving prayer
of thanks is for sweet Nita and all the other grandma’s in the world who live
every day in a state of sharing
their wealth of love and their seemingly boundless energy with the rest of us.